Secret of success in personal and professional life

There comes instances in each life when we surrender to the circumstances with the feeling that nothing is going to change any further and as a result we give up. Factually adverse situations present us an opportunity to further explore and expand our personality. But we fall prey to our own rigidity. Instead of trying again and again, we exit the scenario. Actually situations give us a chance to check whether our personality is in right shape or not. If we feel perturbed, means we have not grown enough to have equilibrium of mind. It is not philosophy. It’s a real world and we have to overcome the tendency of giving up to the circumstances. I give you an example from life. Atmosphere in an office sometimes is not supportive enough to be called conducive one for professional growth. Colleagues who are less competent, get promotions and other benefits and at the same time tease you and you become violent in thoughts, cursing thereby your own wisdom. I tell you those crooked people are banking on your talents and you are not aware that they are stealing your very powerful ideas as good people have a bad habit of sharing their thoughts/ideas  with people around them. The moment you confine/control yourself from expressing those valuable and detrimental ideas, your adversaries become impatient and you win. So always nurture the habit of not sharing your things openly. Instead see people changing their behavior badly.

One thing that has helped me grow vertically I would like to share with all of you. Life has presented me with plenty of adverse situations frequently. I have been feeling weak, beaten with a lot of pain in my heart with no fault of mine. I tried to control the situations which were never in my control and thus failed. Somehow I had an intuition that let things flow its own way naturally and they are not going to affect me anymore. Let us view situations of life as a spectator. Try not to identify yourself with the situation. Sometimes when watching a movie, we identify ourselves with the character and as a result, we begin to cry, laugh, jump.  Just try to meditate on your realself. Things would be more vivid and clear when you peep into your ownself and answers to most of questions would be reaching you invariably. Pawan Bairagi (bairagipawan1970@gmail.com)